In First Thessalonians Chapter 4, verse 2, Paul says to the church there, "We want you living in a way that will command the respect of others." And he goes on to say four things important to that life. Each of these things tell us a story about living a life of leadership in a life with God.
The first direction was, "Be a calming influence on those around you." Now, I am not exactly what one might call a calm person. I'm kind of effervescent, bubbling with joy that I am so loved! How can I not be when I am so blessed? I have a life filled with Christ! I have a family who loves me and each other! I have friends who are precious to me! And, although I care about the whole world and its needs, my needs are few. And when I am in trouble, God is always there. How can I not be joyous?
But when there is trouble within the family or among my friends, I am assured enough in God's help to assure them as well. Perhaps, then, I can be calm....because I believe in God's help. I know He will help us in times of trouble. But, and this is a big but, we must be satisfied with God's answer as sometimes it will be "no." Hope for a "yes", or a "maybe", or a "later".
Learning to trust in God in spite of His answers is hard, admittedly. But it is of great importance.
Secondly, Paul's directions said to "Mind your own business." I sure hope I do this! One time I did interfere, that I remember well. A friend called me with sadness because of two things. She was unhappy with... her attitude toward her husband and also, her prayer life was off kilter. She shared with me several incidences of both problems, and I found myself saying something like, "Maybe if you clear up the way you are treating him, your life with Him will grow as well." Yes. That's interference. I admit it. But she is still grateful and I give all the thanks to God.
Third, "Do your own job." Make sure what God has delegated to you , and do it with love and gladness. Do it thoroughly and without complaint.
And fourth, "Be grateful! Be grateful to be periodically reminded of these things: Be a calming influence, mind your own business, and do your own job." No explanation needed. But, I try, in addition, to be grateful for two other things: Be grateful that others have their jobs, too, and that you have been given a job to do!
Lord Jesus, Thank you for my job, that I might lead others by friendship and fellowship in the Word! Amen.
Am I now an old friend? Jo
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